Category: Swinging


Do Swingers have more fun?

Of course the answer right off the bat is Yes! I actually got My start in the adult industry from being a swinger and My websites are geared toward My fun in the swinging lifestyle. Being a member / subscriber to My websites will allow you to follow Me during all My fun and Swingers REALLY do have more fun! Many people that I have counseled have expressed an interest in swinging, but either have no idea on how to get started or they had a bad experience and stopped. Once you have created a strong bond with your mate, you have established a strong bond built on trust and respect, there is little that can hold you back from enjoying swinging.

I think that all couples (straight and LGBT) should and would have a great time swinging. Sharing their partner with someone else and watching them enjoy sex with a stranger is probably the most exciting sexual acts that anyone could experience. Many of us have fantasies that involve watching our partners with one, two or many more other playmates. Bringing others into our bedrooms for a night of exploring and acting out our most intimate desires is certainly right at the top of My fantasy list, as I’m sure it is with most of you.

The key is making sure that both you and your partner have a firm grasp on what it is that both of you expect. Things often never go as planned, but a good, strong relationship and a healthy dose of trust will usually get you over any obstacles you both might encounter. Always, always, always respect each other’s boundaries and never assume you know what each other is thinking. Talk about what you expect before the fun begins, then revisit the same talk after everyone has left will be paramount on your success as a swinger or swingers. I know some wonderful people that I have met as a swinger and we will always be friends… friends with benefits I might add… Visit Me on My websites and follow along in My adventures. Feel free to send Me your ideas for swinging and My videos.!

Swinging & BDSM

I often host Swinger events in different cities when I travel. It is so fun to meet people that are new to the swinging lifestyle as well as couples and singles that have been doing it for years. I love interacting with my fans at these events and seeing old friends that I have partied with many times in the past.

Recently; I was in Dallas to host the ‘Freaky Friday’ fetish party at the Iniquity Swinger club. I brought in lots of fetish gear; a St. Andrews cross, Twister (a fucking/spanking bench,) one of my fucking machines and ‘The Wedge”.  All of these pieces can be viewed in action at My site ~ http://www.ashleechambers.com 

It is always such a joy to see someone’s face light up after I give them a little taste of pain (spanking, a Violet Wand, etc) immediately followed be some pleasure (a Magic Wand, etc) and have them say “I had no idea I would enjoy that so much. Please Goddess, may I have another!”…

I get lots of support from the Swinging Lifestylers as they all know that swinging is where I got my start. I also enjoy representing the BDSM lifestyle and presenting it to swingers. My goal is to build the bridge between swinging and BDSM. So many people are unaware that they have a fetish. (Which can be anything, you are only limited by your imagination.)

Swinging

 

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I am often asked how I got my start in porn.  I have always had an insatiable appetite for all forms of sex, a true nymphomaniac.  As life went on, I explored with many different types of lifestyles.  I insisted in being in control but was also drawn to strong Dominate men, which for a time, was quite the conflict.

At some point, a boy-toy I was dating at the time introduced me to Swinging.  we went to a Swinging convention that lasted the weekend and afterwards; I was hooked.  Here I seemed to have found my niche.  I could really be my sexual self and be accepted by all involved.  I tried things with other men and women that I had only fantasized about before, all in the space of a couple of days.  By the time we got back home, I was exhausted; but had so much sexual energy that I couldn’t rest or sleep.  I was definitely hooked.

I started going to every swinging convention, hotel take-over, swinger club, meet and greet, and house party that was thrown for swingers.  Soon, I was throwing my own parties where we had wild orgies and endless sex marathons for days.  Couples and singles came and went as they pleased and the party never slowed down until I was just too exhausted to continue, only to start the whole thing up again the next weekend.

There were always pictures being taken and video cameras rolling and somehow, I managed to be in every picture and on every video.  Many times I was asked why I didn’t have a web site up since I truly enjoyed having sex in every possible way, and I had absolutely no problem being filmed.

For a while I toyed with the idea until one weekend I met a really cool webmaster that gave me some great ideas.  He was also a Master Dom.  He took me to my first BDSM/Swinger party.  In one of the rooms, the host had a fully functioning dungeon.  I watched the Master at work on a sub and my pussy got sooo wet.  The rest is history as I have now become a rather hot Dominatrix.  The Master and I stay in touch and every now and then we do a scene together, but more on that later…

Goddess Ashlee