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I am a naturally dominant woman and instinctively drawn to control men. I am a Pro Domme and a Fetish Model. I require My subjects to obey and have a deep interest in serving. The right to worship Me must be earned. I also love to be pampered by male pets, who can caress every desire I have in domestic and financial areas.

As you can see, I am incredibly physical and love working out.

I’m a Responsible, Strict, Disciplinarian. Domination is not an act for Me, it is a part of my personality that has always been there for as long as I can remember. I discovered a place where I could embrace My dominance and that a dominant female should be cherished and worshiped. For Me this is a profession that I have chosen and love. A sophisticated lady blessed with sultry exotic looks and a classic, hourglass pin up figure. Don’t be fooled by My demure appearance – My penetrating green eyes will break you down, lead you astray and miss nothing.

I seek perfection. I demand Respect, Worship and Strict obedience.  My manner is extremely Dominant and Controlling without being cold or harsh.  I do not scream, yell or insult the intelligence or physical shortcomings of My submissives.  I am a sensual sadist and can be cruel but I am also understanding to the needs of the novice. So for those of you with little experience, I can gently guide you into the depth of your submission and you will find that submission comes easily. However, for those more seasoned players,  I can be hard and demanding.

I am Far from your average Domina next door. I’m very beautiful, erotic and intense. Yes, I look exactly like My pictures. I actually look and always feel like a GODDESS, not just calling Myself one. I am very feminine and elegant. My body is absolutely intoxicating, measuring 34EE-22-34.  I have My own Dungeon and several websites.

COME BE APART OF MY QUEENDOM~ http://goddessashlee.com/join-now

Come be My Plaything~

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I just love riding a Big Black Cock, especially one that I have had tied up for many hours! For weeks, I would not allow this slave to release his cum. After many sessions of tease and denial, I decided it was time for him to blow his load. I allowed him to worship My muscles as I queened him and came on his face several times. I then squatted on his massive cock that filled and stretched My tight little pussy, and rode it until I came several more times. Finally, after his balls were all swollen and purple from holding back…

Taming Rikochan

I want you all to meet My newest fan, and My newest submissive Rikochan.Visit her at…http://rikochanpornstar.com/

Rikochan, soon we will meet to begin your training. Your fantasy begins…

…I left her standing there, …desperately looking around trying to understand her surroundings. Letting her thoughts run wild, as if she were a small new-born deer in the forest. Alone, waiting, anticipating what could possibly happen next, …but having an uncontrollable curiosity to stay put, perhaps even venture forward, but hesitant.

She does not know where I went off to. I’m there, …secretly watching, waiting for the right moment to show my presence again. I allow her to absorb all that is going on around her. The silence is deafening. The smells from the dank basement gym are a mixture of salty sweat, rusting steel and leather. Its cold down here, just the way I like it. I want her surroundings to attach her senses. It appears to be working.

I finally approach from out of no where. I bark at her like a Drill Sergeant, she nearly comes out of her skin. She cowers a bit, mumbling something as I force her to look into my eyes. Good. I have total control. I gently reach out and start to undress My new submissive, to inspect her…

I will not go into great detail, as a true Dominatrix does not disclose her craft or methodology…

When I’m done, she staggers up the stairs from the basement gym. I can not help but feel that she has turned a corner in her life. After only one “training” session, I think she is going to do well. Now… her mind is racing, realizing that there is no turning back. She will only be limited …by her imagination. I look forward to our future “workouts.”

 Goddess Ashlee~

I take great pride in my Strong, Muscular Body, as you can see on DirtyMuscle.com. I work out at the gym twice a day, (morning cardio, afternoon weights.) I set up a training session at SheMuscle.com with one of My slaves, but… he was late. As a result; I hardly let him look at Me during the whole workout, as I flex and pump my muscles. Then, I make him leave in disgrace…

From time to time, I like to chain up one of my slaves and smother him by sitting on his face. I tie his cock up and allow him to worship my strong muscular body. As I tease and deny him, it isn’t long before he is about to explode. I reward him by relieving the pressure that has built up from having his cock and balls tied up for so long…

I love tying up one of My faithful slaves and leaving them there for hours, anticipating My naughty return. When I finally came back, he was made to watch Me pleasure Myself with a huge black dildo that I drove deep into My tiny pussy and made Myself cum numerous times. I could see that his cock was about to explode, so I gently stroked and milked all the cum out of him until there wasn’t a single drop left…

Swinging & BDSM

I often host Swinger events in different cities when I travel. It is so fun to meet people that are new to the swinging lifestyle as well as couples and singles that have been doing it for years. I love interacting with my fans at these events and seeing old friends that I have partied with many times in the past.

Recently; I was in Dallas to host the ‘Freaky Friday’ fetish party at the Iniquity Swinger club. I brought in lots of fetish gear; a St. Andrews cross, Twister (a fucking/spanking bench,) one of my fucking machines and ‘The Wedge”.  All of these pieces can be viewed in action at My site ~ http://www.ashleechambers.com 

It is always such a joy to see someone’s face light up after I give them a little taste of pain (spanking, a Violet Wand, etc) immediately followed be some pleasure (a Magic Wand, etc) and have them say “I had no idea I would enjoy that so much. Please Goddess, may I have another!”…

I get lots of support from the Swinging Lifestylers as they all know that swinging is where I got my start. I also enjoy representing the BDSM lifestyle and presenting it to swingers. My goal is to build the bridge between swinging and BDSM. So many people are unaware that they have a fetish. (Which can be anything, you are only limited by your imagination.)

Sex and BDSM

In the BDSM world, there are two views on dealing with sex, (penetration).  One is on a Professional Dominatrix level, (a session) and one is on a personal level (a scene). I have talked about this before, about me being a ‘different’ kind of Dominatrix as compared to most.

First let me clarify that in my Professional Dominatrix ‘sessions’, I receive ‘tributes’.  There is absolutely NO SEX, (penetration), and my Dominatrix ‘sessions”, will not be associated in any way with a prostitute/escort.

However; with that being said, the ‘no sex rule’ does not apply in my personal world. I require that my partner(s) ‘relieve’ me (multiple times), during or after a ‘scene’ as the sexual tension reaches its boiling point.  (Of course; after I get mine, then they get theirs.)  BDSM and all its kinks get me so hot and horny personally; I can hardly see the reason for not having sex as the ultimate climax.  To me, what would be the point?!?  As I said, this is only my personal world.  (Check out my website at www.AshleeChambers.com to see me enjoy myself in this manner.)

There are those out there in the BDSM world that think there should not be any sexual contact (penetration), during a session.  There appears to be a rule or ‘ritual’ started some time ago, that anyone who is a Dom/Domme of any sort, should not intend, nor expect to have sex on any level with their sub during a scene/session.  There are two sides to this coin and I happen to enjoy both, BDSM with sex on a personal level and BDSM without sex on a professional level…

Goddess Ashlee

My Definition of BDSM

I have been asked and approached on many occasions about my definition of BDSM.  BDSM is really hard to pin down with generalized statements since at it’s core, it involves a variety of different aspects.  B/D=Bondage and Discipline.  D/S=Domination and Submission.  S/M=Sadism and Masochism.  Some people prescribe to just one of those while others might enjoy all aspects.  Also, within even these categories there are seemingly innumerable numbers of kinks.  Some kinks do center around humiliation or degradation.  A submissive may enjoy these things in various forms; whether it’s physical, emotional or mental.

So yes, some people may prefer a flavor of BDSM which is more degrading to the submissive, but not ALL BDSM is oriented that way.  Some see submission and dominance as complimentary gifts to be given and accepted by one another… that there is beauty in the dynamic.  I know that for my own dynamic, trust and respect is paramount between me and my sub.  Even in scenes that might be ‘rough’ for my sub physically, mentally or emotionally… we have discussed the scene prior to engaging in it and have ‘negotiated’ what is and is not acceptable.  Along with always having  safewords.

I have also been asked if there could have been life changing events that cause a predilection for BDSM in people.  It could be an interesting psychology evolution.  However; in my sphere of friends… we haven’t found a consistent theme.  People come from all walks of life and all sorts of backgrounds and careers.

Just as I started this reply by indicating just how many varieties and flavors of BDSM there are… these are just my own thoughts and views on the matter.  Depending on who you talk to, you may receive just as many answers.

Keep in mind, as with any group, there are some who take things to greater extremes than others…

Goddess Ashlee