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Hello all of you Swingers, Kinksters and Lifestylers out there! Now that we are all getting back to somewhat of a normal life, let’s get out there and have some real fun again! I know that all of you are more than ready to get your ‘Kink’ back on!

Since the creation of 50 Shades of Gray, many Lifestylers have begun to explore the Dom/sub (D/s) lifestyle. Seeing the movies stirred up all kinds of emotions. They were also fun and exciting. They were an erotic way to discover a world of kink that most people did not know about, or thought were too taboo and intimidating. One would think that there has to be more to the D/s lifestyle. You are correct. Let Me help.

When you search the internet for Dom/sub; you get pages upon pages of information. So, where do you start? How do you know if you are a Dom, a sub, a switch, or either of the three? What do they all mean? If you break down all three and start another search; you get a whole other world. It can be very confusing and quite intimidating.

Then, there’s “How do I introduce this to my partner?!?” Or if you are exploring together, how do you establish who is what? How do I know if I’m a Dom or a sub? Is there a test that I / we can take?

Introducing ‘Goddess Ashlee presents…’ I will have a series of classes that cover a wide and detailed range of subjects on the D/s lifestyle as well as everything related to BDSM and kink in general. Here you will learn the correct way to get started, and or get on the right path to the BDSM world.

In my April 2nd class, ‘Beyond 50 Shades’, we will begin with breaking down the true meaning of a D/s relationship and what the two mean. We will explore and identify both meanings, and determine which role you are best suited for. Followed by what is expected from the role you choose. We will discuss the rules and guidelines for each role. You will leave with a feeling of accomplishment and understanding. Let Me set you on the right path to success! 

Mention my blog and receive 20% off ticket sales

Cost: $100 single / $150 couple

Webcam options available!

For booking inquiries, to purchase ticket and more information, please contact GoddessAshlee@protonmail.com or call / text 813-325-0956

Tickets can also be purchased through Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/beyond-fifty-shades-tickets-301632790797

I have noticed a big shift in the way people are looking at the world of kink. Since the novels and movies “50 Shades of Gray,” BDSM is becoming more and more mainstream. What used to be kept hush hush and in the dark, has now become talked about out in the open and discussed in mainstream media. Participants in this “scene” tend to have in common an adventurous attitude and a high sex drive,(Me included!) There is wide variety within this community: some people merely incorporate some kinky practices into a private sexual life as a couple, while others live a total BDSM lifestyle. Recently a few voices within the mainstream sexology profession have begun not only to educate colleagues to “normalize” BDSM and fetish practices, but to also point out some of the striking sexually intelligent practices within this community – for example, the tremendous communication skills and the use of BDSM “scenes” for therapy and healing. Due to BDSM being so misunderstood in the past, people often experienced shame before coming out as BDSM participants. This is all changing as I am leading the way through private sessions with individuals of all sexual identities, and educating people through events, seminars and workshops!

A recent study showed that there are more people who engage in “kinky” sexual practices than there are people who identify as gay, straight, lesbian or bisexual. What I have found, is that kinky, fetish practices (BDSM) are found in all sexual relationships and the most common practice used by all in the world of BDSM is… Communication!

For inquiries, email Me at GoddessAshlee.com or call/text Me at 813-325-0956